Everyone has one real goal in life, to achieve true happiness. You should treat people the way you would want to be treated, and that is something i truly regret not doing with someone that i cared so much about. When you go through a hard time you don't realise when people are trying to be there for you. You push them away so much just because you want to be on your own, but do you really? No one wants to be alone and no one wants to lose the closest people to their heart. But the more you push, the more chance of them walking. Then you realise what youve done and your world just feels like its crashing down.
Start letting go of things in your life that are stopping your happiness. This could be many of things. There are a few things i have learnt these past few weeks as to why i never felt myself, here are just a few. I stopped looking to other people for approval in everything i did/do. Its your life and it doesnt always matter what people think, if your happy with your decisions then thats all that matters. The way i see it is, think of how much you could really achieve if you stopped letting peoples opinion dictate your life. Its your life so you should live it how you want, everyone makes mistakes. That just all part of the learning curve.
Get rid of any past anger and upset you have gained. If you really care about someone but know they have upset you in previous times but want to forget it. Do just that. Forget it, start again and move on. No one should ever dwell on the past, as i said before everyone makes mistakes. So just make the peace and try to work it out. This isn't completely a way of 'letting people/things' off the hook' its a way of moving forward and forgiving for the right reasons.
So you have this image of a perfect partner and a perfect life? This is what stops people from moving forward. Forget this 'perfect' image you have put together in your mind, nobody is perfect. Be happy with what you have because trust me, once its gone and you start to realise it doesn't ever want to come back and its the hardest thing in the world. I know its hard to really admit, but sometimes you are wrong! So stop being stubborn before you ruin it. The right person is someone that can love you for who you are, someone you feel stupidly comfortable with, someone who is there for you at the hardest of times and someone who you can truly love. Don't push them away because they make the stupidest mistakes or do the stupidest things, when you know deep down you couldn't bare to be without them. Its the same for life, life is what you put into it. The choices you make in life are ones that only reflect the life you lead. So stop hanging around, if you want it, go and get it!
Never give up on something/someone you know you truly love and want. Everyone has something to be grateful for, so start appreciating it. Stop thinking of life as a glass half empty but instead, half full. Appreciate the people you have in your life, its unbareable losing someone and knowing its mainly your fault. If you really think you've made a mistake and cant move on from it, dont. Fight for it. Try your hardest to prove your forgiveness. Everyone will work out fine in the end.
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